Meaning, purpose and hope

INFJS tend to see helping others as their purpose in life (www.16personalities.com/infj)

That’s a pretty accurate description of me and probably why I chose social work as my major in university.

Meeting up with my friends who are still in the field, reading about community initiatives that have been started from the ground and social enterprises making impact in society – I felt encouraged, I felt inspired.

But I also felt left out. Here I am making an impact in just 3 little persons’ life. Most of the time, I’m just too exhausted at the end of the day to do anything else, much less have the energy to help anyone else or serve in any ministry.¬† One thought led to another and then I started to think that what I do has no meaning and no purpose. Looking after kids and having a very administrative part-time job just didn’t seem to make the cut of making a difference in the community, I felt hopeless.

As I was wallowing in these thoughts, I met 3 people in a span of one week:

  1. She takes care of 3 grandchildren and her husband, who amputated his leg. She has to fetch her grandchildren to and fro school and they all go to different schools. And she’s expecting a 4th grandchild to take care of.
  2. He told me he quit his job as a bus driver to take care of his 2 grandchildren and wheelchair bound wife. He fetches his grandchildren to and fro school, and also brings his wife for morning walks.
  3. Every morning, she takes the public bus from Toa Payoh to Ang Mo Kio to fetch her granddaughter from school and supervises her homework. Thereafter she fetches another 2 grandchildren from school and prepares dinner, and then returns to her home in Toa Payoh by bus again.

Obviously God had a message for me:

Do such “work” that these 3 grandparents engage in count for as nothing?

I felt ashamed that I should think of their caregiving duties as not having any meaning or purpose.

So in 2019, with faith in my heart, I believe this path that I’ve chosen has a meaning and a purpose in my life.¬†Jesus cleanse me from all these self-defeating, self-pitying, self-condemning thoughts and I shall have hope that whatever my hands undertake, small or mundane, has an impact in someone’s life.

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